Signs of Maturity

Maturity is not something that is fused in our genes nor does it depend on age. Many people claim to have matured as they reached adulthood or old age. Maturity doesn’t depend on age, it depends on behavior which is like an adult mentally and physically. If you want to evaluate whether you are really mature or not yet, here are some clear signs of maturity to look for in yourself .

“Maturity, one discovers, has everything to do with the acceptance of ‘not knowing.” [1]

― Mark Z. Danielewski, House of Leaves

Can take criticisms :

When someone criticizes you, you positively receive those criticisms as advice and use them to evaluate.

Talks less but listens more :

Mature persons always listen to others carefully, they don’t talk more. They give themselves space to develop their ideas and lead to better quality thoughts.

Don’t engage in gossip :

Maturity is when a person doesn’t waste her/his time to gossip about others.

Don’t judge easily :

Maturity is when a person respects others and others’ point of view, beliefs and way of life without judgement. 

Save more than what you expend :

Saving time or money or any other things more than expenditures will itself lend credibility to maturity status.

Other Signs of Maturity :

• Sacrificing for the good of others without resentment.
• Learning to let go, accept the situations and move on.
• Focusing on positives in people.
• Having control of your own emotions.
• Taking responsibility for yourself and your actions.
• Feeling thankful for what you have.
• You’re able to accept yourself for who you are.
• Walking away from people and situations that threaten peace of mind, self-respect, values or self-worth.
• Being humble and modest.

I am sure there are probably other signs, but this list covers at least the majority of them. Try to reflect on the positive sides of your behavior. Thank you for reading.

Don’t forget to love yourself. Happy reading! 🙂